How Domestic Violence Affects Children | Little Eyes, Little Ears

Little Eyes , Little Ears: How Violence Against a Mother Shapes Children as They Grow - by Alison Cunningham & Linda Baker - the Centre for Children and Families in the Justice System

Children are deeply affected by violence in the home, even when they are not the direct target. This resource explores how exposure to domestic violence shapes children’s emotional, behavioural, and developmental experiences as they grow.

Children who witness abuse may experience fear, confusion, anxiety, and self-blame. These experiences can influence how they see themselves, their relationships, and the world around them. The impacts may appear suddenly or develop over time, and can vary depending on a child’s age and environment.

This guide outlines how children of different ages—from infants to teenagers—are affected by violence, as well as the coping strategies they may develop. It also highlights the importance of supporting caregivers and strengthening protective factors to help children heal and thrive.

With the right support, children can recover and build resilience. Family Service Regina offers trauma-informed services to support children, youth, and caregivers impacted by violence.